Saturday, September 01, 2007

The Last Splash — For Now, Anyway


Here it is, the end of summer, the last splash before the rush of the fall and the change in the air when the high pressure from the north starts to push the cooler air from Canada down our way.

The end of summer, when the children's pool that opened up in the newly-restored playground across the street from us will drain its chlorinated turquoise brew to reopen sometime around Independence Day 2008. (Sidebar: Hooray, hooray for new public places and spaces, that I have elsewhere commented seem to be so few.)

The end of summer, when there's a kind of melancholia in the air. The title of a collection of short stories by the Irish American novelist James T. Farrell echoes in my mind: Can All This Grandeur Perish? The answer: Of course, not only can it perish, it surely will. And we with it.

Oh drat. There I go, melancholic again.

The Buddhist and Hindu traditions both recommend meditating on the idea of one's death. And the Puritan preachers of the Massachusetts' Bay Colony suggested imagining yourself on your deathbed, looking back over your life. I'm not going to go that far, but will just look back over one summer, this one, and say adieu to some of the summer's delights . . . .
  • watching Sweet M splash in the public pool, with all of a summer afternoon's joyous commotion, and she is completely unperturbed by the splashing of others (this is a change)
  • dicing summer-super-ripe heirloom tomatoes into a vinagrette for a one-vegetable salad
  • microwaving sweet white corn in the husks, the perfect microwaveable container
  • staying up late with Sweet M because there's no need to get up at 6:30 to drag oneself off to a school bus
  • water sliding with Sweet M, even with a mangled toe
  • trying to get up in time to catch the full eclipse of the moon, but dozing back to sleep for just a bit too long
  • lots of excuses to eat ice cream
  • family reunions and Fourth of July parties where Sweet M can roll out entirely new and unexpected behaviors
  • the discovery of a new ice cream, Ronnybrook Farms Ginger Creme Brulee ice cream — so good I wish it were in the local supermarket or back in stock at Fresh Direct
  • getting the perfect shade of pink toenail polish for the season's last pedicure
  • and the fire escape garden, this year also rendered in pink, in honor of Sweet M's favorite color
And next year, hopefully a summer without surgery, so we can add snorkeling back to the list of delights!

Next list: what I'm looking forward to in the fall . . . .

15 comments:

kristina said...

Ginger cream----sounds delightful enough to last into the autumn! I've already begun my semester so the days have been heavily tinged with coffee----our last splash is a sailing event with Charlie on Monday.

Hope M's school year is the biggest splash of all!

Delilah said...

It's always so hard to say goodbye to summer. Best wishes for a wonderful autumn!

MothersVox said...

Yes, Kristina, you've got it . . . the ginger creme brulee ice cream is one ice cream worth writing about. Ode to to ginger creme brulee. And welcome Delilah; I'm just visiting over at your blog this week.

Mom to Mr. Handsome said...

That ice cream sounds delicious!what an awesome flavor. It is sad to see summer go. But I also love fall :o)

Kristin

Kim Stagliano said...

Hi, Mother's Vox. I love the end of summer. The crisp in the air that sneaks up on you, the new school year for the kids.

Say, are you going to come to John Robison's Autism Memoir launch at the B&N in Union Square on the 25th?? I blogged the details. Hope to see you there!

KIM

mcewen said...

Don't know if I could manage the ginger creme brulee, as I'm not so hot on icy things. There again a year without surgery would make up for it.
Best wishes

John Elder Robison said...

I know you've stopped by my blog from time to time. . . my book Look Me in the Eye finally goes on sale next Tuesday. I'll be reading at the Union Square B&N at 7, if you're able to stop by.

Angela said...

Hi there!
Nice to see other parents blog here sharing same experiences... I'll pass by again...

Dadof6Autistickids said...

I found an 'Autism guide' for parents and teachers on the website of the National Education Association (NEA). It has a LOT of good info that parents should make sure their school district and teachers of your children have AND use. I thought you and or your
readers would find it useful.

I have more details and the link on our blog.

http://autismbitestheblog.blogspot.com/2007/09/autism-guide-for-educatorsteachersparen.html


Good luck!

Sarah said...

Hi MV, hoping the school year is starting out nicely and that you're not having the bus hassles of last year. I have had my own adventures with the OPT this year, but happily everyone I have spoken to has been unfailingly polite and sweet. That's been a revelation!

kyra said...

i love your list! and i await the delights of fall. as much as i long for summer and mourn its passing, fall has always been my favorite month.

happy fall to you and sweet m!

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